Let's set some goals

It's 2018!
HAPPY NEW YEAR!

I hope the beginning of the year has been amazing for you. I hope you have relaxed, spent some time with your family and friends, slept and just taken it easy. Because I have done it all and I couldn't feel better.

I have seen so many videos and posts and snaps and you name it...where people have been like "We need to make goals! Make it! How to stick?" And so on. And I have been like I am not going to make myself some big lists and promises that I am most likely to be sure that I won't accomplish.

So at the end of the year I realized that this year might have some huge changes...Things with my dad, they might take a huge turn and I have to figure out what I actually want to do..For now I actually wrote my dad and told I really want to meet up him and talk, I've thought about things I want to say. We'll see how that goes...and actually I did promise to talk things through with my dad this year. And this is the promise I am going to keep! Other is moving..I am might move this year and back with my mother...we'll see if that happens, but if it does it is one huge deal for me.

Because of seeing so many goals posts/videos and I think I really started thinking that it is great to create some goals just for yourself. Just to see at the end of the year what have you actually accomplished and some things to direct you this year. Few of them might be as simple as...smile every day. What I should do more myself, actually

Few of my goals this year:


  • I want to take more care of myself. I know I am surrounded by amazing friends who always have my back, but this year I want to learn how to let go of my past and how to find the real Kelly, I know she is hiding somewhere inside me. So therapist is the way for me, and I have also already send an email for one person.
  • I am getting better at enjoying life and that's surely because of my boyfriend. And I want to be even more better at doing this. I want to leave my kind of indifference and more "Don't think just do it" kind of lifestyle.
  • I am 18 and first thing that I wanted to do was to go on a trip. I actually arranged one for February but my boyfriend wasn't that happy for that idea. So I postponed it, but one thing I really, really want to and I know that I will do is going to a trip. Ideal would be alone, but I think it won't happen, it probably will be with one of my besties, but I know that one trip will happen this year!
  • I kinda wish I would find more time for my friends. I am pretty shit at keeping in touch with people who I am not seeing every day. I am quite lazy. And I would like to meet with more people this year, find more time, because I know there are people outside of my school as well...So Kelly just do it.
  • Family things as well...c'mon. I am wishing that it would be the year where at the end it would me much more calm that it has been for a while.
  • Talking. I think my boyfriend would be happy to see that at least it is my goal. I screwed up with people few times last year because I didn't talk. If I had problems, I shut down. But when time goes on more and more I realize how much I need people, and I really need to talk with people..if something happens, if I start overthinking, if I have a problem I. NEED. TO.TALK! I need to talk immediately.
  • Go to a concert. I'd love to see Ed Sheeran live again..it would be dream come true. Also I'd love to see Sam Smith live so be and my best friend are thinking of doing that..And I really hope that happens, please, please, please! I love live concerts, like waaay to much!
I guess that is it. These are just some basic goals or dreams that I would like to achieve. I think it is important to write down your goals because then you see them, others can remind you and you have something to push towards :) 

Make it the best year of your life!

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