I feel like 2018 was totally a year for me where so many people left me or taught me like life lessons...and the best advice I got was from my best friend "You can't force a friendship"
So I had a best friend who well after some time you just realized that this isn't a best friend relationship anymore. We had been best friends for like 2 or 3 years. For me it was a very important friendship that mean a lot to me, but then one day I realized that this friendship is dead. Because I started feeling like whatever I said was judged. And that started happening a lot. And when all the hard times emotionally were over I realized that this is a lesson I learned...that this isn't a true friendship...when a friend can't accept your flaws or your differences and you changing...and a person can't be your causal friend, because when you are together you still have fun and stuff. Because when you are apart you have your own life anyway...And if a person can't accept you in no matter what then this isn't a friend.
So my break up taught me that...I am not even sure do I want to touch this subject but let's just say it it taught me a lot. Made me look at things in different ways and showed me how quickly life can change and how to move on.
A very close friend to me...who now is a stranger. Just one day that person decided to walk out of my life. Saying to others that he had a hard time, whilist getting new friends. Later tried to come back, but then I had kinda made a rule...Things are going to be like they were, or there won't be anything. So this is where my best friend's advice was told...and it hit me. And I started not caring about it anymore, and finding other people.
And also I guess I realized with lots of people who are bad to me or who are good to me. I also kinda narrowed my friendships kinda down, I have 2 ultimately close people to me and I wouldn't change them to anything. At the end I started surrounding myself with just people who I care and who I just want to talk, not too many extra people. Talking with lots of people taught me that there is no need to surround yourself to fake people, they don't give you anything.
My ex aka my best friend showed me that no matter what can happen, if you are in that person's heart and you feel close with that person they you never have to break a friendship...and as I said he is my best friend.
Also only one friend stayed by my side last year all the time...and it showed me that, when a person says she is your best friend...she is.
So I had a best friend who well after some time you just realized that this isn't a best friend relationship anymore. We had been best friends for like 2 or 3 years. For me it was a very important friendship that mean a lot to me, but then one day I realized that this friendship is dead. Because I started feeling like whatever I said was judged. And that started happening a lot. And when all the hard times emotionally were over I realized that this is a lesson I learned...that this isn't a true friendship...when a friend can't accept your flaws or your differences and you changing...and a person can't be your causal friend, because when you are together you still have fun and stuff. Because when you are apart you have your own life anyway...And if a person can't accept you in no matter what then this isn't a friend.
So my break up taught me that...I am not even sure do I want to touch this subject but let's just say it it taught me a lot. Made me look at things in different ways and showed me how quickly life can change and how to move on.
A very close friend to me...who now is a stranger. Just one day that person decided to walk out of my life. Saying to others that he had a hard time, whilist getting new friends. Later tried to come back, but then I had kinda made a rule...Things are going to be like they were, or there won't be anything. So this is where my best friend's advice was told...and it hit me. And I started not caring about it anymore, and finding other people.
And also I guess I realized with lots of people who are bad to me or who are good to me. I also kinda narrowed my friendships kinda down, I have 2 ultimately close people to me and I wouldn't change them to anything. At the end I started surrounding myself with just people who I care and who I just want to talk, not too many extra people. Talking with lots of people taught me that there is no need to surround yourself to fake people, they don't give you anything.
My ex aka my best friend showed me that no matter what can happen, if you are in that person's heart and you feel close with that person they you never have to break a friendship...and as I said he is my best friend.
Also only one friend stayed by my side last year all the time...and it showed me that, when a person says she is your best friend...she is.
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